“Nude lips are usually worn by a woman who understands balance,” says Baraf. You don’t feel the need to please people, because you’re not afraid of what others think. At the same time, something tells us you don’t take yourself very seriously — which is a quality we think every girl needs.

And because you don’t worry about the state of your lips, you’re one to let go of the little things easily. Like that parking ticket you got last week? It’s no biggie, you’ll just be more careful next time. You also tend to have a good sense of humor, says Nemes. So when something goes wrong, you can always find a way to laugh it off.