When you have dark, ashy blonde hair like Jennifer Lopez’s, you’ll want to soften your makeup look. Try a peachy pink blush and a wine-colored lip gloss (like Bare Escentuals Lip Gloss in Celebrate, $15).

For your eyes, sweep an olive shadow (which is your best color, Stern says) over your lids. Line your upper lash line with brown eyeliner and keep the lashes defined with brown mascara. It’s the best way to get a “softer look without sacrificing bold lashes,” Stern says.