The bottom line: Guys want you to wear a hairstyle that’s flattering on you, doesn’t totally hide your pretty face, and didn’t take you hours to create — but also doesn’t look like you just rolled out of bed. (Oh, if they only knew how much work those “casual waves” really are.) Should you listen to their advice? Maybe just this piece: “Don’t try and force someone else’s style on yourself.” Well said, dude, well said.